How many of us become unhappy because we don’t get what we want? We may want a relationship, more money, a new career, live in a different place or just change our life completely. I can see in my life that at times I can be unhappy because I don’t get what I want.
I am aware that when I am unhappy when I don’t get what I want, I am believing that I need this thing in my life to be happy. The truth is that it is an illusion in my mind that something outside of myself will make me happy. We have been conditioned by society, the media and those around us that we need all these so called “things” to be happy.
We have become dependant on these things outside of ourselves to make us happy. The mind is in a place of craving this outside pleasure which we are believing is happiness which a lot of the time is not true happiness. A lot of times we can become motivated from a place of unhappiness as a way to get the things that we want. However when we choose to come from a place of unhappiness in going for what we want, we will rarely end up in a place which is true happiness.
They say that the goal behind every goal is happiness. How powerful would it be if we decided to choose to be happy now regardless of what our situation is and still take action towards what we need in our lives.
We can invite the possibility of our happiness not becoming dependent on something outside of ourselves by;
* Choosing to let of the outcome when we take action.
* Being grateful for where we are right now for all our blessings.
* Believing that happiness is a choice.
* Becoming aware that happiness lies within and not in something outside of ourselves.
* Making happiness your number 1 priority.
* Not identifying with whatever our external reality is.
As always I welcome any feedback, comments or words of wisdom or inspiration.
Namaste,
~ TW
Ncardoso said:
Happiness is a daily, a minute by minute choice, it is an inside job, completely unrelated to exterior factors.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Yes. That is so true. Thanks for sharing. Namaste. ~ TW
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Steve Lakey said:
It’s good to have regular reminders like this. Thanks!
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks for sharing. Namaste. TW
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mgert123 said:
This is a very thoughtful post. Thank you for your insight.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks so much for your kind comment. Namaste. TW
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terry1954 said:
I agree. We need to be happy with what we have been blessed with. The media can play havoc on our brains
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The Truth Warrior said:
Hi Terry. Its so important to be happy with what we are blessed with. Namaste. ~ TW
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Lori D said:
The universe spoke to me once when I was going through a state of depression due to something I couldn’t have. A line in a movie popped out at me, and I knew it was meant for me. “If you’re not enough without it, you’ll never be enough with it.” It’s when I started working on me, and not the circumstance.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks so much for sharing. I really love that quote you shared. so true. Namaste. TW
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geraldine licayan said:
i truly believe this! i feel very much contented of what i have and what i am right now after reading this. thank you for writing such an inspiring blog. 🙂 may i reblog this if you dont mind? 🙂
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The Truth Warrior said:
Yes you are more than welcome to reblogg this. Thanks for sharing and best of luck on your own journey. Namaste. TW
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geraldine licayan said:
Thanks a lot! 🙂
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rameshguptagbd said:
we should always remember this to be happy
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The Truth Warrior said:
Yes we should 🙂 Thanks for sharing. Namaste. ~ TW
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imconfident said:
Great post! I couldn’t have said it better myself. Happiness does come from within. It’s too bad society pressures us to believe otherwise.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks for sharing. It is so true that happiness comes from within. Namaste. TW
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jenyphero said:
In general, I’m a happy person. But sometimes forces outside ourselves try to bring us down into that cycle of unhappiness. As one of your readers said, the quest for happiness is a daily event. Counting my blessings has worked for me. Especially on days when said evilness tries to encroach on what I have created for myself. Thanks for the inspiration. It couldn’t have come at a better time!
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks for sharing. I really like count your blessings as well. It is so important. I wish you much success in your own journey. Namaste. ~ TW
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Bunny's Blog said:
Thanks for visiting and following my blog – and it brought me to yours, which is beautiful! I agree about your perspective on happiness … like everything else, it is a feeling that ‘is’ – not something that has to be sought …. you already have it, it’s just finding it in yourself sometimes that is the challenge. Like so much of life – you already have what you desire, not necessarily in a material way but the things that – to me – are the most important …. happiness, love for yourself and others, peace, integrity, etc, etc. Hope you will visit my blog again -Namaste!
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The Truth Warrior said:
Hi. Thanks for sharing your wonderful and kind words. Great to hear from you. I agree we all have so much of what we desire. Namaste ~ TW
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dannignt said:
Eloquently put.
Danni
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks 🙂 Namaste. TW
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geraldine licayan said:
Reblogged this on Me on top of the World.
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mscrayolagirl said:
Thank you for the follow. once we accept the fact that we are a result of our choices and understand we can easily choose to be happy while altering our emotions…our thoughts/actions will change.
-mscrayolagirl
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The Truth Warrior said:
So true. I like what you said. Namaste. TW
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mscrayolagirl said:
Thank you. I have been practicing Yoga for over a month now and it has done some amazing changes for me. One of the best choices I have made. Namaste.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks so much for sharing. Yoga is great. I wish you well on your own journey. Namaste. ~ TW
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Madison Woods said:
I’m basically a happy person in general. I think part of reason is because *working toward my goals* makes me happy. I’d become pretty frustrated and very likely unhappy if I were in a position to not be able to do that… but then I’m flexible and would probably change my goals to be something that would work within my situation. It is my nature to be a ‘problem solver’ and even if the solution is difficult or time-consuming, to be able to work toward it is what I need out of life.
I like your thought-provoking blog 🙂
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks for sharing. It’s so true about having goals. I like what you said. Namaste. TW
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mscrayolagirl said:
@Madison….forward thinking is important and become frustrated can happen with one don’t get what they want or if the goal seem far and beyond the persons’ reach. Having discipline, persistence and a positive mental attitude is important.
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Jennifer Crow said:
Truly, good wisdom, and an awesome mission. You never know when something you say or write (or blog) might touch another person and be the spark to growth. Thanks for stopping by my blog as well!
Jennifer
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The Truth Warrior said:
You are very welcome. So true. Thanks for sharing. Namaste. TW
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Julie Israel said:
This is really insightful…and so relevant for where I am today. Thanks.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Great to hear from you. I wish you peace and happiness in your journey. Namaste. TW
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Marylin Warner said:
Powerful reminder of the flipside of actually getting what we think we want—realizing it isn’t what we want or need, or there is still a void.
Excellent post.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks so much for your kind and inspiring comment. Namaste. TW
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info4u2bu said:
Reblogged this on ulearn2bu.
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks for the reblog 🙂 Namaste. ~ TW
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info4u2bu said:
Love the photographs
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thanks 🙂 Namaste. TW
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tadedeaux said:
Congratulations! You’ve been nominated as a VERY INSPIRING BLOGGER by Tiffany at narrativeecopsych.wordpress.com. Go to her most recent post to see your nomination and learn about the award. THANK YOU for sharing your experiences and ideas with the blogosphere!
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The Truth Warrior said:
Thank you so much for your kind nomination 🙂 Namaste. ~ TW
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